tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1446397838971671963.post3966361129974494187..comments2023-08-21T09:23:47.036-05:00Comments on What's Going On?: Should the Past Be the Past?The Exceptionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11688217637001555631noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1446397838971671963.post-9087822478864804752009-01-21T19:37:00.000-06:002009-01-21T19:37:00.000-06:00You're exactly right in everything you said. I ha...You're exactly right in everything you said. I have learned from past relationships, that you know how much you can tell and how much you can't. Some guys can't accept the fact that we had a life before them, and when you start telling them stuff, then they realize maybe they reallllly didn't want to know all of your past, lol. Or here's another thought... maybe we tell them ALL about our past to see how much shock value we can give them, and see if they stick around. Hey, the best way to see what they are about is to tell them some crazy stuff you've done and that sometimes will determine how long they stick around. :)Tonya Ingramhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03035295756087790022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1446397838971671963.post-63297166321401561352009-01-21T13:57:00.000-06:002009-01-21T13:57:00.000-06:00It's funny that you posted this because Carlos...It's funny that you posted this because Carlos & I debate about "our" past. Not anything that has happened beyond our marriage (even though he knows all about that) but just our past as a couple. Yes, I believe the past should be the past, no matter what. I'm happy to share my past with him, granted that he doesn't use it against me. Visa versa. I want to know about his past because I share my life with him. I'm not going to use that part of his life again him because that was a life before me. My thing is, I want to know because later on in life, I don't want any "ghosts" or skeletons from his past haunting our current relationship.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04301890121371417295noreply@blogger.com